Update
Mr. Hedbabny just came into my store to tell me that he is afraid of me. I asked him why and he said because I threatened him. I asked him why would I threaten him and his reply was “because I used a bad word last night, I used the N-word.”
I asked if I could take a picture of him and before he gave an answer this is what I got.
![Kai Hedbabny]()
Original story
If you really want to know someone’s honest opinion on religion, sex or race, I suggest speaking with them while they are drinking, a lot, because while they are intoxicated they are unable to filter their TRUE thoughts.
Sitting at a local bar in town Saturday night, this heavily intoxicated Caucasian man sat next to me and immediately introduced himself as Kai “Smith” then he changed “Smith” to “Jones.”
After introducing himself, Kai told me that his wife left him and moved to California with her psychiatrist. He also found it necessary to tell me that after his wife left he was forced to sell his $1.3 million home at 19 Ridge Brook Road because he couldn’t afford to make the mortgage payments.
Immediately after sharing his financial situation with me, Kai decided to tell me about his criminal activities, at which time I warned him that I was a blogger and it was quite possible that I might share his story with my followers.
Kai says go right ahead and write whatever you want to, and by the way, “you are not a nigger like the others.”
Completely shocked by his racist comment I asked Kai to repeat what he had just said and the idiot did, but this time he added a little more. Kai asked me if I knew this black prominent woman from town, whom he named. I am not sure why I said “yes” to this question, but after I did he told me: “she is also not a nigger.”
Jumping up from my bar stool I said to Kai, “I am going to knocked the shit of you if you continue to use that word.”
Kai says to me: “but you are not one of them. You and [the other woman] are not. It is a compliment to you both.” Then he went straight into his criminal background and in between telling me how much he hates his father.
“Me and two nigger prostitutes went into the Chase bank on West Putnam Ave,” Kai told me. “They called the police claiming that I tried to cash a check with false identification.”
Not wanting to hear anymore of his bigotry, I stopped him, said a few colorful things to him then I left the bar.
I did my research on Kai, and this is what I found.
Fifty-four year old Kai, whose real name is Kai Hedbabny, grew up at 111 Porchuck Road. He married his wife in 1991 and in July 1997 they purchased a 2,531-sq feet 3-bedroom, 3-bathroom ranch at 19 Ridge Brook Road for $720,000.
In 2009, Kai’s wife filed for divorce and in 2010 they sold their home for $1,325.00
In December 2011, Kai was arrested and charged with second-degree falsely reporting an incident and second-degree breach of peace after telling a Chase bank employee that a crime was in progress.
On November 21, 2013, Kai was arrested and charged with criminal trespass and failure to appear. A homeowner on Garden Place told police they came home to find a drunken Kai, who lived at that address six months ago, in the living room.
On December 3, 2013, Kai was arrested, again, and charged with operating a motor vehicle under the influence of alcohol/drugs, following too closely, and failure to appear.
Kai is scheduled to appear in state Superior Court in Stamford at 10:00 a.m. on April 11, 2014 to plea on both charges.
So here you have Mr. Hedbabny’s story. Oh yes, I forgot to mention this, Kai is currently teaching karate to children in Greenwich, and yes, some of his students are African Americans.
I am desperately searching for a picture of Mr. Hedbabny and as soon as I find one I will post it!!!
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